I don't think it was mandatory or anything in my chapter but we gave small gifts, usally before or right after iniation. I think almost everyone did a paddle for their big and maybe a picture frame or a stuffed lion or something.
When I was iniatated into Phi Sigma Pi, I got my big a bag with letters on it, some people gave sweatshirts or blankets or other stuff. Again, it wasn't a rule it was just something that everyone did.
It didn't seem weird because of all the stuff/time/etc. gives to you when you're a new member it's nice to give them something for a change and to show appreciation.
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