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Originally posted by James
Oh and lol, he must have been so shocked when you actually hooked up (only kissed? Come on!). Most people that do the breaking up only do it because deep inside they don't think the other person will hook-up with anyone else.
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okay, first off all i did was kiss the other guy...nothing more. i'm not the type to get drunk and screw anything w/ a pecker. second, i was not playing games. we had discussed doing something but not where it would lead or anything. i was under the impression (when he left) that all we would be was friends unless something big changed his mind. thats all i was asking for. he made it seem to me that maybe, just maybe if i was lucky and i worked really hard, we could get back together. thats bull. i don't like being the type of person who just sits around crying, so i went out and ended up kissing (YES, just kissed) somone. big deal. he didn't want me (what he told me) anymore so there was no reason for me to wait (b/c i was told not to expect anything). i do agree with you that in that if he had told me we would definitely try to work things out when he got back it would have been cheating in a sense. nothing along those lines was said though. if we had talked about seriously working things out one time before the little incident happened i would have had a reason to feel really bad about what happened, but we didn't. i was by no means playing the games you were talking about (don't see how you think i was). he was the one playing w/ my head. i felt really bad at the time, but now i feel that if he didn't want me to end up with someone else, or whatever, he shouldn't have broken up with me. although i didn't feel this way before, now i think he got what he deserved.