While I was pledging there were definately cliques...there were a few girls that I *really* didn't like, too. I really tried to be their friends, and eventually we all came together. Senior year I lived with those two girls, and if you had told me that while I was pledging I would have laughed in your face! More imortantly, I was a bridesmaid in one of the girl's wedding. We're still really tight after pledging 6 years ago. People just want to feel like they belong. I find that if you make an effort, generally things will go well. And if not...you still have the rest of the sisterhood!