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Originally Posted by SigmaAlphaOSU
Okay I have a couple questions about lavaleiring and pinning. After a guy pins or lavaliers you, does that mean he can't wear letters anymore?
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It might depend on the traditions of the particular chapter and perhaps the campus culture, but generally speaking, he can and will (should) continue to wear his letters.
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I heard one of the girls say it's like giving you whatever recognition he has from his fraternity.
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She is incorrect. It is a token of his affection usually signifying that the relationship is "more serious" than boy friend and girl friend. Often prior to engagement.
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Also, can guys only lavalier one girl while they are in the fraternity? (like if they break up and they meet someone else can they lavalier the second girl?)
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Yes, he may lavalier as many women he wants. Hopefully - for the girl's sake - not at the same time. And ideally, the woman he broke up with should have the class and dignity to offer to return any tokens of his affection. Especially his badge.