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Originally Posted by Indecisive
To all of those that have responded...
Is it your pretentious, elitist mentalities that forces you to attack? Or is it the good ole feeling of being on the other side that makes you feel grand?
As I previously stated, my question is in general and not directed to this messageboard.
Just because a person didn't have something handed to them, doesn't mean that they didn't have someone to aid them along the way.
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Hi Indecisive,
Whichever sorority you decide to join, remember that first and foremost we are all service organizations. We are a selfless, benevolent group of women who's ultimate goal is to help and serve others. It takes a very special woman to carry out the goals and mission of a sorority. It takes a very special woman to cross and then stay financially active for years to come, and commit herself to the goals of the sorority. It says a lot about a woman's character when she can take herself out of her comfort zone, deal with advesity and yet still acheive her goal, it says she worked for hers and the likelihood of her sticking around to carry out the sororities missions are high.
There's an imbalance between financially active and inactive members in all the sororities. I never like to assume why someone is inactive but the reality is that we need active sorors to carry out the mission. We need women who will give of themselves freely and willingly. And it's those women who put up with whatever they had to, just to get in that in the long run you can count on.
To wrap this up, my point is that if your true mission is to help others, dealing with evasive members should be a minor thing... it's just another hurdle to prove how strong you really.
Good Luck to you and remember Strong sororities, need strong members.