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I believe in spankings. I got them when I was little...not many, but thats because I learned not to do stuff that would make me get one! I remember in church my mom would get on to me for talking...and she would look at me and say "do you wanna go to the car?" I never knew exactly what was in the car...but the heck if I wanted to find out. I too turned out pretty dang good, and I still respect my parents and try not to do anything that they would be ashamed of.
I think people who put their kids in time out...and never put any sort of fear in a child...a fear of real punishment...raise kids that are out of control. I know people who actually look scared of their kids. Come on!
Now Im not talking about beating you kids, hitting them with your fist...or whatever. Im talking about a firm hand on the butt.
It hurts their pride more than it does their butt...but thats how they learn between right and wrong....in my opinion.
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