HC I feel you on this!
HC I had the same feeling about a recent party I went to thrown by a college friend
HC things are never as bad as we make them in our minds
HC I'm not really that big, but I DID gain some weight since graduation that I have been trying really hard to lose
HC I ain't never gonna have a six pack
HC I have to accept that, lol
HC I went to the party despite my reluctance?
HC I had the BEST TIME
HC the minute I walked in I realised that I ain't the only one who gained a lil weight!
HC I just tried my best to be comfortable with myself
HC it worked!
HC I got a lot of attention
HC that shoudn't have made me feel better, but it did
HC the moment you stop worrying what others might think about you and just try and love yourself other people will feel it and be attracted by your positive attitude
HC self doubt just breeds self hate
HC if you are really uncomfortable with yourself though, set up a healthy reasonable exercise plan (I wouldn't call it weight loss, I say health maintenance about mine, cuz it ain't about losing weight it's about feeling better about myself and having more energy)
HC if you want some advice/info you can always holla at me and I will point you in some directions that helped me out.
HC I'm out....