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For the most part, when people say "you end up where you belong" it really is true. The thing is though that "where you belong" doesn't necessarily mean your top choice. Often PNMs think that they belong in their top choice when it doesn't really work that way.
As for having a cousin in a sorority you like, I'd have to echo what Centaur said. It's great to have close friends or relations in a chapter but when it comes down to it, it really means diddly. Unless you're a legacy (and I'm not sure about other NPCs, but in KD a cousin is not a legacy) extra thought isn't given to relations. It all comes down to whether or not you fit with the chapter.
I don't mean to be overly negative here. I know recruitment can be stressful. Unfortunately, there really isn't much comfort to be found since you can never know for sure what's going to happen. The important thing is to keep an open mind about all 4 of your remaining options.
Good luck with the rest of recruitment! I hope you'll be happy in the end.
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