I'm probably in the minority, but I don't think the comments are overly rude. I personally don't feel PNM's should "cough up" to what the houses are at the end. (Mainly because the PNM's are sharing their story with their opinions. We might not always agree but we aren't her and we don't know what she is seeing. Or even how she is feeling. Unfortunately in today's society people tend to take things much more personally, so that's why I don't care if they "list" what house represents whichever code name). Just my opinion.
The good thing is that she is (from the sounds of it) keeping an open mind. It sounds, to me, that she is aware of the rumors and isn't letting them effect her decision.