[Scandia]

I understand what you mean. I just don't want an obese chronically unemployed smoker with a felony record who worships the devil and uses sarcasm 24/7/365 and has 7 different kids by 7 different mothers.

I know, I know. I am being way overdramatic. I am just trying to put the opposite of what I want without getting into potentially offensive territory.

Some things can be tossed out the window (for example, if he was ignorant about anime while I am a total otaku, or if he was a total sports nut while I could care less about sports, or if he were a night person and I'm a Mary Sunshine, or if he disliked the natural sciences and the fine arts and majored in finance, or if he had never been inside The Gap and wore jeans and t-shirts 99% of the time, and similar things to the sort that in the long run do not matter all that much). But some can't, like it was discussed in the other thread. And if it makes me uncomfortable in any way, I cannot deal with it- no matter how much the spark is there otherwise.