Hi! I saw this thread when I clicked on View New Posts and wanted to respond...Something to consider for those who don't already know..
Each state determines what type of "criminal history" is released and what it takes to get the info. For example, Florida is an open records state where a lot of info is easily accessible, I'm told. In Georgia, felony convictions can be released, but for the majority of criminal history info, you may need to get a release from the person you want the info on...unless you want to go check each agency's log books or court dockets..I guess private investigators have their own methods but can be time consuming and expensive. Also, more and more states have Sex Offender information on their websites..but you have to be careful in making sure that the name on the website is actually the person you know.
States do not give out other state's criminal history because of the differing criminal history dissemination laws. Example, in Georgia, the criminal history may say "Multi-State Offender", but won't tell you what other states or federal agencies. In some cases, like certain employment or licensing, FBI record checks are required so you would find out.
Something else to consider..Unfortunately, people don't always give their true names when being arrested so namesearches may yield the wrong person or show that your subject has never been arrested. In my job, we frequently have people say that "I've never been arrested, but someone is using my name, SSN, etc.". Sometimes it is the person's relative.
As for me, if something was bothering me, I would rather know now. Thankfully, I've known my hubby and his family since I was a teen.
Whatever you decide, I hope that everything works out for you the way you want.