Are you really a TKE?!
Sweethearts definitely don't 'join' anything, at least not here. I really had no intention of being a part of anything Greek; I turned down two sororities my freshman and sophomore year. I was chosen by the guys my freshman year, and it was a surprise. I didn't even know what a Sweetheart WAS. Haha. I was chosen because I was friends with quite a few of the guys, and always attended their events. I didn't get drunk and make a fool of myself at their parties, I wasn't making out in the corner -- I would watch out for the guys who were, at the time, just my friends to make sure they made it home safe.
Trust me, if it was a servant thing, I would have run in the other direction loooong ago.
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