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to join or not to join?
Hi,
as some of you might see my post in the recruiment section, I'm accepted as a member of AEPhi about 2 weeks ago. However, i'm afraid that I'll not be able to pay the dues because they are too expensive for me. and up till now, I don't think i really fit in the house.. maybe i'm too quiet and i'm a boring person... so I don't know if i want to pay that much to join the house.
I mean.. i always wanna join a sorority, but it seems so different and time-consuming to me after i joined. I feel bad when girls asked me to some of the parties and i rejected because I needa study for my midterms... i feel like i'm disappointing them...
anyone can give me some advice?
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