Hi there-
Everyone is right...you're not a legacy, and you should keep your options as open as possible. However, I hope that you have a chance to check out the Alpha Phi home page
www.alphaphi.org before recruitment. There is a "Potential Members" link, that could give you some valuable help. It might not be a bad idea to check the national websites of each of the NPC groups on your campus. Best of luck to you, and let us know how things go!