I'm also of the opinion that the old adage "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is not true.
I cheated in a previous relationship...and vowed to never do it again. I still feel guilty over it. Recently I was on the other end of the relationship and was cheated on...again, I know that never again will I do that to someone.
My feeling is that if you don't care/love someone enough to stay committed/faithful then it's not even worth being in a relationship with that person. Ending it will be better for both of you.
I also have no respect for anyone that knowingly is with someone that is in a relationship. Especially the people that actively pursue someone that they know is in a relationship. Karma is a bitch and it will come back.
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