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Originally Posted by emily0325
I think the best way to deal with a girl not getting a bid is to just simply say. "XYZ sorority was glad to see you come out to get to know us during our COB events. However, a bid can not be given to you at this time. There will be many more opporunities in the future for you to recieve a bid."
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I would NOT say this. Some women will not receive bids, regardless of how many times they go through formal/informal recruitment. It's the sad truth. Telling a PNM that there will be "more opportunities in the future for you to receive a bid" will do nothing but give the PNM false hopes. There's no reason to go down that road with a disappointed PNM.