[ladygreek]

Wow, I guess I am just a little surprised at the need to explain anything at all. Membership in any of our orgs. is a privilege, not a right. Some folx fit in, others don't.

Now with the scenario described about the boyfriend it sounds like you feel the need to do damage control. But very honestly, she also should have realized that she wouldn't exactly be welcomed in that sorority.

I say let it go. As long as your chapter followed whatever your rules are for selection so be it.