One website I read, complied by a NY Special Task force, said that it can range, as with adoption from complete anonymity, to meeting with the potential recipient, to keeping in contact, to actually being a part of the child's life as a "special family friend".
I think if I did it, I would want to meet the couple, and that's about it. I don't think I'd want to keep in contact or pictures or anything.
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