[stagebear]

i'd look at goldman and artcarved brands. you can find them at a lot of national jewelers (littman, zales, etc, etc). don't just look at what's in stock - make sure to ask for the books cause they usually dont have a lot there on hand.

i know you said he wanted them to be identical, but maybe you can compromise a bit. i've been looking at a set that looks great in the male version, but the female version is too wide for me. so we've looked at a small band for me that matches the interior design of his. (it's basically looks like the female verison has borders to make it wider for the male.)