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I have seen the good and bad sides of PNMs and currently active sisters. It's wonderful if the chapter loves the PNM for herself and not just because she is Sister A's biological sister.
I don't know the rules or if would be handled the same way now, but we did have a case where a PNM wasn't desired. The active sister was in the room while the voting was going on and was devastated to hear why her initiated sisters didn't want her biological sister. Needless to say, the active sister turned in her badge that night..or at least, started the process. She had been an asset to the chapter up until that night.
I can understand wanting to pledge someone because their brother/sister is already initiated, but as with any PNM, the chapter has to decide how that PNM will affect the chapter, positively or negatively, and make the best decision they can during such a short timespan.
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