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Originally Posted by Professor
the pimp part, of course i'm joking - but not about women chasing men in relationships.
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No I meant the "challenging for men to remain in committed relationships" because there are always availalble women part?
for me, the key is what type of "man" we really want to be, and how quickly and surely we come to understand what we want. Sure, we all play the "get all you can get while you can get it" game. Women play it too. Emotional maturity shows a man -- or it should, anyway -- that life, and relationships are about depth, intensity, the recognition that a relationship that is good and fulfilling is well worth the "allure" of what's still out there, what we've been chasing all our lives up until the point of our maturity.
I just do not think my ability to be "committed" is affected by who else is after me. If I make the decision to make it "good in my house," then it doesn't matter who is down the street waiting for an opportunity.