Can't you ask them to give back all items with letters? Sadly, I have had to blackball a member for "severe conduct unbecoming a member" a couple years ago, and we had our advisor, an alumna and the president go back to with the woman in question to her room, and remove all letter items.
We had a member decide to leave last fall, and she gave everything back of her own accord, since she obviously was not going to wear it anymore.
It's in our constitution that you have to give everything back, and are not allowed to wear anything with letters after removal.
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