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Originally Posted by Alphagamuga
Do you think it means that they don't realize that St3ph888 can't join? Would a group knowingly invite a person who couldn't join until the following year?
ETA: I'm paranoid about seeming antagonisitic. I'm sincerely asking, not being rhetorical.
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It seems that way to me. If it is just a few members hanging out and watching a movie or something, that's one thing. But, a sisterhood event with the chapter definitely seems more like recruitment to me. And I know at my chapter we wouldn't have invited a girl to a COB event if we knew we couldn't give her a bid...it wouldn't be fair to her. Unless we were trying to "woo" her ahead of the next formal rush period.
So, it seems to me that they don't know she's ineligible.
Not everyone knows about the 1-year rule for de-pledging. So, St3ph, here's what I suggest...if you're friends with the girl that invited you, or anyone in the chapter, and feel comfortable asking her, ask if the chapter knows that you can't go greek until the next formal rush. Maybe say that you would like to get to know the girls better in the meantime if it's possible.