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Originally Posted by tld221
since we always compare seeking membership to a job interview... would you tell the person you were interviewing that you were gay? or on the final interview? or your first day of work?
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At first glance I thought this was a good analogy and would still think so if the issue was she had lied in her interview. (Which couldn't have happened anyway.) But where it then fell short for me is that once you are online the job analogy is no longer applicable.
I do agree with Shid's comments, but I also understand what my sorors are saying, because we all know what goes on in our process.
Very honestly, I have not commented about the scenario before, because it involves my sorors on both sides and I do not want to pass judgement without knowing the other side. Especially when one side sounds so extreme.