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Originally Posted by ColorfulCre8ion
So if you don't accept someone's lifestyle then you have to mistreat them?? You can verbally express that you don't accept someone's lifestyle and then leave it at that. Its how they handle their unacceptance that I had an issue with NOT THE MERE FACT THAT THEY DIDNT ACCEPT IT. Again you can dislike someone but that doesn’t give you the right to mistreat them and that was my issue. I don't understand how you could not understand the difference 
I know that Nationals cannot solve anything, which was the information that I received from posting on here. Prior to posting I wasn’t sure what to do because I had talked to prophytes, my advisor, and others and the behavior still carried on. This is why I sought advice to gain insight as to what to do next because I was confused, hurt, angry and a host of other emotions.
I didn't disclose any information about my chapter, school, or anything so as far as I am concern the issue is still 'in-house'. I was seeking advice for myself and I received that. (Thanks to those that gave me some)
So Reds6, if you don't have any pearls of wisdom to give.... then I no longer need to hear from you, thank you!
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I think I stated I didn't condone the behavior of the chapter.
Also you don't have to disclose the name or location of the chapter, to know where it is; especially if you are being ridiculed on campus. I guess you would be the only person on this national site from your school,right?
You asked for thoughts and opinions and I gave you mine, whether you want to read them or not. Apparently you are looking for validation instead of insight or opinions, in that case don't post personal situations on a message board and ask for feedback. I asked questions because I question the validity of the post, not that I condone someone being mistreated, so don't get it twisted. And spare me with the pearls of wisdom remark, I'm approaching 12 years in Delta, not a semester.
Look I can care less who anybody is licking or sticking on a daily basis. Just like I wouldn't go out and announce I'm hetro, why feel the need to announce you're gay. Be you, be owt, and if you feel the need to talk about your girlfriend do so without looking for validation from others.