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Originally Posted by WhiteDaisy128
Don't straight up say "I want this house and no others..." --- strange things happen at pref and someone else might pull ahead...but I would say, "I hope I see you tomorrow, I'm having such a great time with ABC."
Best of luck.
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Agreed. Much in the same way a PNM gets hurt when she is promised a bid and doesn't get it, an active sister can get hurt when the PNM kisses ass too much and then goes somewhere else. There can be a lot of disappointment on bid day on both sides, and that is why you should be tactful.
Now, it is great to express that you really enjoy a house, just don't make any comments that make it sound like that house is the one and only.
Examples:
"I feel more at home here than any other house" == BAD
"I feel so comfortable here, I hope I get a chance to meet more sisters" == GOOD
"I can't wait to be an XYZ" == PSYCHO