Thread: Just Wondering
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Old 01-14-2007, 02:40 AM
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Originally Posted by sexybrownmocha View Post
I recently turned 26 my daughter is now five, I am STILL in school in Texas and I just figured out my dating pattern. I tend to date men that make ME feel like they NEED me. I constantly help them sometimes to the detriment of myself. I was wondering if anyone else has struggled with this somewhat in dating... I feel so bad I have a huge heart and LOVE to help everyone but it's like I go overboard with the man I am interested/involved with. How do you ladies view "helping" a man by giving him money and helping with his responsibilities? I don't have low self esteem or anything , I am somewhat shy.

Question: So how often are you getting dumped when you are giving your all to a man when he takes your assistance freely and do you like this situation in your life?

Another question: So, you post this information in the AKA Ave. where you run up under a man and give your ALL to him, but you cannot give your ALL by doing community SERVICE TO ALL MANKIND?
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