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Originally Posted by sexybrownmocha
I recently turned 26 my daughter is now five, I am STILL in school in Texas and I just figured out my dating pattern. I tend to date men that make ME feel like they NEED me. I constantly help them sometimes to the detriment of myself. I was wondering if anyone else has struggled with this somewhat in dating... I feel so bad I have a huge heart and LOVE to help everyone but it's like I go overboard with the man I am interested/involved with. How do you ladies view "helping" a man by giving him money and helping with his responsibilities? I don't have low self esteem or anything , I am somewhat shy.
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Do you think that subconsciously you seek out relationships of dependence, so you'll have more power? Or, if you give a guy what he want/needs he'll be less likely to leave you? That's what it seems like too me, I might be wrong.