Do you have a Alum web site, email listing?
We have tried to find and break it down with areas where there are enough Alums to have a small gatering.
In The K C area, we have a monthly gathering at a local resturant and bar. We are also working on the Joplin, Mo. and Tulsa, Ok. areas.
We also have a yearly golf outing usually held in KC area which has the most members. It used to be huge and members came from all over as it was not only a golf outing, but a family thing afterwards at a Brothers house in his barn. No horse type barn!
Many come from all over and make a weekend of it.
Good luck!