Hopefully my last post wasn't too rude
but really, if there were a school in which there is a GSS chapter and an all-male APO chapter that had to start actively recruiting women, then I don't think there would be any major conflicts there. We already have a few chapters that are in this type of situation and their membership doesn't seem to be affected.
At the end of it all, it's where ever that individual feels the most comfortable being.