I dunno. I guess for me, it would be hard to tell. I would just let things happen as we went along.
The last relationship I was in, was with a guy I met my freshman year, but after I joined my sorority, I broke up with him b/c he thought the sorority changed me. Well to make a long story short everything went down hill from there.
I felt if he couldn't support me then I thought that maybe we should spend some time apart. I thought he was the guy for me, but I guess he wasn't.
We dated for 3 months before it got serious.