Ok, I was there when she said all those things...it was only her, me, and my friend in the room so I didnt take anything out of context. Everything I wrote is what she actually said to the tea. And she didnt care. It was shrugged off.

The advisor had to be in her late 50's and I can tell you even though she dealt with it, she didnt too mcuh care for it. She was entertaining her New Years guest (about 8) at a quiet lil party.

Im not trying to bash XYZ, im just asking how would you feel if you saw this coming from fellow greeks. It shocked me but i know these things happen.

As far as the sisters position at nationals, i think its a normal entry level thing. something theyd hire a collegian for. I know she gets lots of projects and one deals with her working on a email magazine, and she sends out supplies.