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Originally Posted by PeppyGPhiB
First of all, I would stop using the term "incest" when referring to this situation. That's not a label you should apply to your organization.
Second, I'd like to point out that I think most (if not all) NPC sororities/fraternities have said they do NOT support auxillary groups, so please do not assume that members of non-co-ed organizations have an "affiliate fraternity or sorority" and can relate to your situation.
Finally, I'll just say that it does not surprise me at all that these relationships are happening in your group, in fact I'd be floored if it wasn't happening frequently. When you spend a lot of time with people of the opposite sex and form close ties, hook-ups and dating happen. If the relationships are healthy, and don't cause harmful drama, why don't you accept it as a good way to find one's spouse/SO?
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im sorry. i didn't necesarilly mean affiliate. like on my campus we have fraternities who do some of their pledging with another sorority or just have a lot of ties kinda idk how to explain it. but that's kinda of what i meant, not an affiliate persay, but just idk how to explain it. but anyways....
thank you all for ur help. i have been bringing some of the things that people have mentioned up with my fraternity and we are starting to finally just drop the subject. as a fraternity we are coming to the conclusion that it's going to happen, and it shows how close we all are, and how much time we all spend together. thanks for all of the advice!