Not to be"little" big guys, but ties and most male clothing are made for normal people.
What is normal any more?
I have a Lion Rampant Tie that I love but one has to learn to tie it VERY Carefully.

Will not put holes in it at all. Yepper gammazeta, no matter how small the pin is, it leaves holes!
Maybe a tie bar would be better in fact. Saw one years ago on ebay. Lost it!