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Old 01-02-2007, 02:24 AM
elusive47 elusive47 is offline
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I know most of you are not in co-ed fraternities or anything like that, but some of you probably have your "affiliate" fraternity or sorority? I was wondering how you guys deal with your "incestual" situations. We are having issues with it in my coed fraternity right now, and I would really like some input from bigger organizations about how you think it can be handled.

Personally my opinion is that if people stayed out of other peoples personal lives this would not be a problem, but one of our founding fathers is saying that he thinks we should do away with relationships in the organization completely. But we have been around for 6 years, and already have 3 married couples, and atleast 4 serious relationships that have been going on for a while.

Just wondering if anyone had any good advice! thanks
As one of the few people on Greek Chat that is a member of a Co-ed Social organization, I can tell you that rules will vary from organization to organization. My GLO, Theta Delta Sigma Society, has rules on relationships between our Siblings:

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I am interested, can my significant other join too?

-> Being that Theta Delta Sigma is a coed organization it may be natural for many couples to want to pledge together. However, being that we are a 'siblinghood' relationships of that nature are generally discouraged. Ultimately, if both of you rush Theta and are both given bids to pledge, then that decision is up to you.
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