My chapter asked me to be an advisor the year after I graduated, and I turned them down for the reasons already mentioned. So many of my close friends were still active, it would have been
really hard to separate the friend from the advisor roles. But we stayed one big happy family.
I have, however, stayed pretty active in their stuff since then... sort of an "unofficial" advisor. I try to attend anything I can. The drawback is that there
are several members that I don't know now.
I'm also involved on the national level, which doesn't leave a lot of room for extra work with them anyways (as an official position). I'll always make time to support them!
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Phi Beta Fraternity