[violetpretty]

How long did you stay in recruitment? It sounds like you only went through the first round and fell in love with Phi Mu.

Don't get me wrong, I know this happens, because after our first round, there were two sororities that I was in love with. One of them did not invite me to preference and I changed my mind about the other and attended other chapters' preference parties. Moral of the story: things change after the first round.

Now that your grades are up, you're a much better candidate for ALL of the chapters. Phi Mu may or may not be a good fit for you in the spring, but there could be other chapters that could be home too. By all means, try for Phi Mu, but go to some other chapters too that you liked or even felt so-so about in the fall.