[Scandia]

Something happened this morning that led me to clinch for sure that I have absolutely no romantic feelings for the guy I went on 3 dates with recently.

Even if absolutely nothing comes out of what happened, it has led me to know for sure that I do want and need the sparks and feelings. While they are not the only thing, and perhaps not the most important thing, they HAVE to be present. Otherwise it is just another platonic friendship.