[ladygreek]

Ona college campus you show your interest by attending events--service as well as social--you don't have to verbalize it. But on the alumnae level unless you tell someone of your interest how are they to know? Most alumnae chapters do not have open service events they don't need to, because they enough members to make an impact. And just because someone comes to a social event doesn't mean they are interested--they may have just wanted to have a nice evening.

Discretion is fine, but don't take it to the extreme.

Lastly, and most important, being a sisterfriend here on GC does not automatically translate to a prospect, nor is the intent to identify anyone as such. It is someone who is not a Delta but enjoys the discussion in this forum. As I see it someone could be a sisterfriend on all of the D4 boards. For example on the other NPHC sorority boards I am a sistergreek. If I were not greek, I would be a sisterfriend.