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You can go to the formal. If it were limited to only the sorority and fraternity members, it would be called a socail/mixer/exchange, etc.
I'd hope that your gf would add her sorority sisters to her world of friends; although I'll be honest, esp. in the beginning, it may seem like she doesn't have time for the "outside" world, but that doesn't mean that she wants to give up on her old world so fast.
Just try to be understanding..she's prob got required meetings/events to go to..some things you will be allowed to come to/some not..but then that's life.
Something that caught my eye.."she's accepting a bid in the spring". I assume you mean she's going to spring recruitment?? Sororities aren't "supposed" to tell someone they are definitely getting a bid before it is actually voted on by the entire chapter. Strange things happen, and she may not get/accept one.
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