my immediate past two ex's were a cop then a fireman...(yeah I know I guess I like a man in uniform
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with the cop I worried alot...he always seemed to be looking for the "bad guy" just to keep himself busy while on shift...he worked late nights and I always told him just to park somewhere and chill like all the other cops but he was always looking for a drunk driver or whatever....I use to talk to him while he was working like for hours at a time...there were a couple of times when he would get into a brawl while I was on the phone (speakerphone)...that was scary...I would always tell him to "come home" that how we would get off the phone when he was about to go to work or while he was working...once a cop got shot in his area while he was working and I lost my siht at work....I kept calling his phone and he wasn't answering...that was bad....then once he wrecked the patrol car while I was on the phone.....both incidents were scary as hell....
the fireman chills most of the time at work...there are not alot of major fires here so most days he just answers calls to wrecks and what have you...ironically our first date was to see "Ladder 49".....he's a trucky himself so after the movie we talked about how dangerous his job is...but of course then as I got to know him I saw how much of our tax money goes to pay him and the guys to play Playstation all day
now I'm dating a professional fighter.....damn I think I'm sensing a pattern..
