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Sarah--
Take your time and really think about what you want. Think about the reasons that caused you two to spilt---are they things that can be overlooked or things that will always haunt you???
How much "fun" do you want to have while you are still young??? Is it the type of fun you can have while you are comitted--and still look yourself in the mirror the next morning? If you are just looking to go out with the girls and have a fun evening out-even at a bar or a party--that can be done while you are still committed. If you are looking to "sew your oats" then maybe you are not ready to move to the next step. I can atest that it is possible to still go out with the girls, leave the guys at home and have fun--still be faithful and in love.
Is it possible that you guys could get back together without the laviering and what until the end of the semester for that--just to test the waters.
Sarah--just listening closely to emotions and follow your heart--it will not lead you astray.
Keep us posted!!
Loyally,
Wendi
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