mmm...no.
It doesn't really matter if he is ready for committment or not, because you sound like you aren't. Ya said yourself, you are young and want to have "FUN", and get it out of the way. You're going to want to do this anyways, either now, or after he lavaliers you, except after he does, it won't be nearly as easy to try and justify wanting to mess around. Unless you are serious, serious enough to sacrifice the "FUN" and messing around as if you were single, don't accept the lavaliere, because it seems as if you are doing so with reservations, and thats not fair to him or you. I remember someone telling me once, "you'll always want what you can't have." You need to decide if he means enough to you to come before any other potential guy, if not, you'll already know the action to take.
|