[Scandia]

Bichonl- well, I did try eHarmony for a month once, and I will be rejoining once I turn 30. I am just leaving this last year of my 20s to do 20-something things better enjoyed while single.

AOPiBrandy- I am not sure what you mean by throwing out a list. There is a difference between requiring, say, blue eyes...and requiring someone who has a similar intelligence level and religious/moral values as you do. While not being a virgin may not be an automatic dealbreaker, many partners, being promiscuous, or having children is harder to deal with.

KLPDaisy- I find fumbling on your wedding night to be very romantic. I'm strange like that. I am a fence sitting moderate. I cannot be the lone fluke that God did not put in a mold like every other human being that has existed.
I had never thought of the angle you presented- but then, I am not extremely conservative.