Just wanted you all to know you can stop posting on this thread because I think I've got enough replies to make up my mind...unfortunately the greek system isn't as welcoming as I would have hoped, but that's life. Thanks to all who wrote encouraging messages, I appreciate it. I am done with this whole greekchat thing...Unfortunately there are too many people that are here to judge. As far as I am concerned, having graduated at 20 and wanting to get my MBA is the biggest accomplishment of my life, and I have honestly been messaged and replied to like I am an idiot and a freak...wow. Way to recruit.