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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog
I agree. My husband and I didn't even speak the same language when we started dating, but there was still that "something" there. I could see it in his eyes.
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You spoke the "
Language of Love", baby. Sorry, I couldn't resist.
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Originally Posted by AchtungBaby80
How many? One.
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Same here.
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Originally Posted by Scandia
There are very few good men left......If he does want biological children for sure, I WILL have to let him go. But otherwise, I cannot think of anything else.
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I wouldn't say that there are "very few good men" left. There are men who are newly single, being that they are separated or divorced; I think of these guys as "recycled". When I was in my 20s, I thought I would never date someone who is divorced, let alone divorced with kids. Now, I am doing just that (and he is a gem). From your MySpace page, I see that you are 29, therefore, at this age, you are going to start to encounter guys who are divorced/separated, etc.
My point is, if you do not want to have children & fear disappointing or rejecting someone because they want children, you may wish to be open to dating divorced dads. Some of them may not necessarily want to have *additional* children. (although the kids will be in his life on weekends, etc....not sure how you feel about that). That could be a possibility.
I also saw that you would like someone to be your paladin...(yes, I had to look it up)
1 : a trusted military leader (as for a medieval prince) -
a bit of a tall order for a guy...a lot of pressure
2 : a leading champion of a cause -
a guy who is supportive and is "your champion"...yeah, that sounds pretty good!
eta: If you met on MySpace, I take it that this is a situation where this was basically internet dating? In my experience, you need to talk on the phone too, before you meet in person. If you communicate only via MSN or email or whatever, you can't get a good read on what they'll be like. I've met people in person where the email/MSN was good, but the phone call was "bad". It was bad to meet them in person also....they could not hold a conversation.