Thank God for those Pi Phi alums! They take care of all the food for our rush. They circulate the party the first night with flutes of shirley temples. The second night they provide rushees with white chocolate angels and apple cider. Kappa has "Kappa Kappacino" which is just a splendid idea. The third night ties into our philanthropy and I will refrain from posting on that since it is special to us. Pi Phi's PM if ya need a spirit or philanthropy night idea!
On pref night most all chapters provide a very formal dessert. We go all out with hours of decorating our formal room. We sit down at the dinner tables with rushees and share cheesecake and cider. Usually everyone is so busy crying and talking that rushees rarely eat. Especially since rushees are so nervous. In between parties we would shove down the left over food. We do personalize the arrow cookies at the top of the girls place setting. We get our pref list an hour before so while we are being assigned pref rushees, the alums are personalizing cookies!
Eating schedules are so off during rush for actives. We don't eat all day. Voting goes on until 4 AM and set up starts again at 9 AM. Luckily those blessed alums provide salads and veggie sandwiches and fondue for after the parties for all the actives.