I'm a little late reading this, but I just want to say that reputations as far as "elite" go matter most to you when you're like a freshmen or sophomore, but once you get to be an older sister you realize that it's what you think of Phi Mu that really matters.
I personally wouldn't want to be a part of any other chapter, though there are some great ones on my campus. As I got older, I'm a senior now, I realized that Phi Mus at UF are classy, fun girls and yeah, we may not be the trashy ones that attract all the "fabulous" frat guys, but like one Sigma Chi said, we are the ones that they want to marry--which is a whole lot more respectable than the ones they simply want to take home from the bar.
So everyone hold your head high because you ARE a PHI MU and we are the best around. Really we are!
ok, just my .02!
LIOB,
Tara
---to practice day by day
love, honor, truth---