Love was probably not present to begin with
like 12dn94dst states we are Human first then greek. We can't all be best of friends at every moment, however i do believe in keeping family business in the pham. Bickering in front of others shows division because they don't see us a individuals, they see us as representatives of the sorority or frat. I think maturity and understanding of what is and is not appropriate behavior is something that many humans/greeks are still trying to grasp. As for AKA and Delta on my campus there was only friendly competition if that. There was a great greek love at my school. Some do take things to seriously its ridiculous but most grow out of this after a few years in the work world