[Professor]

I know it happens and I also know folk that it happens to but if you are not ready to marry the guy/girl you more than likely are not ready to have children by him or her. Now before you ladies eat me alive I know that folk will say it was an accident and that the man played a role. I just can't imagine being a woman having a child by a man I'm still dating but not ready to marry.

Originally posted by Ideal08
My old roommate turned down a proposal. Her and her dude were having problems, arguments, you name it. Well, she went for a visit and he proposed to her, even though they hadn't worked out all of their problems. He had gotten the exact ring she wanted, Trilliant cut (which she called a DeltaDiamond, lol) and everything, and she still said no. Which I can understand, how can I say I'll marry you and we can't even fix what we goin' thru now? BUT, they now have a baby together, go figure.

If I felt I wasn't ready, I'd say no. I only want to get married once, so I want to be sure. I am praying that I get proposed to in private, just in case, you never really know. Because I know that there is NO WAY that I could say no if he proposed in a restaurant or at church or something like that. I would never crack a dude's face like that.